StealthSpanker™ : devilish may get a good girl spanking bratty WILL get a bad girl spanking
şũgär : oh spanking no matter what huh ?
StealthSpanker™ : well that depends ... I never force and good spankings are erotic
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : well they do come in varieties, none of this one size fits all stuff
StealthSpanker™ : yes custom made to fit the bottom
şũgär : giggles
StealthSpanker™ : I did discipline 2 girls last night in thie very room imagine that
şũgär : really Stealth Sir … what did they do?
StealthSpanker™ : one stuck out her tongue and the other laughed at her … both spankable offenses
şũgär : ohhhhhhhhhhh.............will this one will make sure her tongue stays in her mouth
StealthSpanker™ : sticking out your tongue is a pet peeve of Mine … a tongue should be used to plz a Master or a Mistress … that’s when it is out …. I have to leave for 15 minute then hope to return
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : ok … so sugar, do you actually enjoy spankings?
şũgär : hmmmmmmmm well haven't had a lot but some have been enjoyable SW Sir
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : so for you it would actually be useful as a punishment then huh?
şũgär : yes as girl doesn't like being punished
»†«phøéb뻆« : punishment is not there for us to like … its meant to correct and refine us
şũgär : well a punishment spanking surely would put this girl in her place if she was bad
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : so just being confronted for a "bad" behavior would feel like punishment?
şũgär : well yes it would SW Sir
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : I'm more inclined to use more natural consequences … confronting the behavior and some deprivation and the behavior needs to be flagrant for anything beyond the confrontation
şũgär : well its a good start SW Sir … a confrontation would work well with one like me as my feelings get hurt very easy but that’s just me so if i were to be spanked i'd know i was really out of control
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : so you most likely would be very sensitive to any indication of disappointment … that's a very good point you make sugar everyone is different and the degree to which one is confronted or intervened upon must be measured on his or her particular personality
şũgär : very true Sir
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : you might be so sensitive that all it would take is a certain look or tone in My voice
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şũgär : that is very true SW Sir
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : would you say you have a deep need to be pleasing sugar?
şũgär : yes girl does SW Sir as she feels she was born to please … depends on the need as she doesn't like to be shared with others if she were owned by one …
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : well that can be enjoyed by some but not others just like many other things but surely there are boundaries to what you would do to be pleasing
şũgär : true some wish to be shared and its their right
StealthSpanker™ : I’m not into sharing
şũgär : my last Master talked of sharing me one night and it really upset me … think i asked Stealth that night on what He thought of that and my Master ran out of the room
StealthSpanker™ : who was your Master sugar if I may ask
şũgär : XXXXXXX Stealth Sir
StealthSpanker™ : oh I see sugar
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : ok ... let's say W/we were at a gathering with others around .... would you mind being shown off?
şũgär : shown off is one thing SW Sir but to be used is another
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : nods and smiles
şũgär : i got very upset with XXXXXXX that night
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : was it something He should have known you would not like, had it been discussed?
şũgär : girl thinks He should of
»†«phøéb뻆« rises quickly and dashes off to the kitchen. Pulling a glass down from the cabinet she makes sure it is clean before filling it halfway with ice. Rips open 2 packets of equal and sprinkles the sweetener on the ice, then takes the pitcher of unsweet tea from the refrigerator and pours it in the glass melting the sweetener into the drink.
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : Well if nothing else .... negotiating boundaries should not be done in front of others or imposing something unexpectedly … shows little respect for the relationship and the individual
»†«phøéb뻆« picks up the glass and using a terry cloth, wipes off the outside, then returns to the room and kneels in front of Master Stealth offering up the glass.
StealthSpanker™ takes it from phoebe … ty phoebe
»†«phøéb뻆« : Yw Master Stealth
StealthSpanker™ : kneel next to sugar plz
»†«phøéb뻆« : yes Master Stealth … rises and moves over to where sugar is, and kneels gently on a soft pillow there
StealthSpanker™ sips the cold drink it is still over 100 with the sun down
şũgär : it was sort of discussed somewhat as i'm bi and He said He was going to get a girl for me and i told Him that when i'm owned i'm that person’s and that’s all
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : that's pretty clear … and the way I would interpret that from you is that you would enjoy playing with another girl ...... BUT .... NOT want to be used by another dominant
şũgär : you could say yes but i wouldn't
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : well having you play with another girl is not what I would consider "sharing" you
şũgär : but if my Master ordered me to i would because i belong to Him but wouldn't be happy about it
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : ahhhhh … and see from My perspective ... that would bring Me no pleasure to have you do something you didn't enjoy
şũgär : but the night in question it wasn't a girl it was men in a bar
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : ahhhhhh
StealthSpanker™ : geesh I also feel if I have to force anything it means nothing to Me
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : well I am impressed that you held strong to your values sugar
şũgär : later He said He was just joking and was very mad at me for asking Sir Stealth opinion
StealthSpanker™ : oh well
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : ahhh ... well there are a lot of things that should be taken seriously and not joked about when it comes to D/s … I also think it is important to be able to seek information and the perspectives of others, most of the literature would also emphasize that
şũgär : girl just felt that He had no respect for her if He was going to do that
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : very understandable … we just had a good discussion the other night regarding respect and appreciation and how important they are in a relationship flavored with D/s
♥♥s♥♥ : would think that is something that would want to be discussed fully ahead of time, so all cards are on the table and each know exactly how the other feels on the subject. The open room is not a place to explore the others thoughts
»†«phøéb뻆« : i like that s. well said
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : not at all s ... I appreciate your comments and fully agree with you
StealthSpanker™ : enter and welcome cherry
~۴~ċħęŗŗý~۴~ : tY, Stealth Sir... are You well this evening?
StealthSpanker™ : Im 100% and you cherry plz … any lasting effects of your correction last night cherry ?
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