aneliesa : so do you all have lifestyles or something in rl?
aneliesa : i didnt even get any asnwers to my question..idk
His~fury~ : welcome back aneliesa
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : oh yes ... both Lotus and I answered
Lotusº :
aneliesa : any chance i could ask to repeat..deeply sorry
Lotusº : yup
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : if you are asking do I or have I participated in D/s activities off line the answer is yes
aneliesa : yes that is what i am asking
His~fury~ : i would answer yes as well
♥♥s♥♥ : have was some time ago
aneliesa : idk ..i have just recently started doing things in rl after years of messing around online ...im sub..im still trying to figure things out and my gf is really new to everything idk like what lifestyle to clarify as
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : hmmm well analeisa I think the term Lifestyle can be misleading ..... it is virtually impossible to describe a certain or specific lifestyle
aneliesa : idk true are any of you Doms or idk
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : I am dominant
aneliesa : idk she is so unsure and has questions and i don't know how to help her bc im sub..i dont have answers
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : oh so she sees herself as dominant?
aneliesa : yes she does..she just had never thought of it before we started going out
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : Well I'd say you both have an opportunity to explore and define how your relationship works best for the two of you
aneliesa : lol yea the funny part is punishment and stuff, she doesnt know what to do and stuff
♥♥s♥♥ : hello wild
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : she has difficulty with punishing you? and just what has she tried to do as punishment?
aneliesa : she doesnt know what to do as punishment idk
~wï£dsÞïrït£ws~Mß holds on tight to her sis* watching people falling out of the room*
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : she might try having you kneel on unpopped popcorn kernels
aneliesa : ah thats brutal
His~fury~ : rice... is not pleasant either
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : well punishment can be … would pulling your hair hard be punishment .... would spanking you be punishment
aneliesa : spanking would be i believe kidna
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : well for Me, if it is kinda enjoyable then I wouldn't use it as punishment
aneliesa : right
~wï£dsÞïrït£ws~Mß : punishment is meant to be just that ..unpleasant..something that is used for inappropriate behavior..doing something wrong or disliked by your dominant
aneliesa : yes i know
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : do you actually give her cause to be ... ummm annoyed, upset, disturbed?
aneliesa : sometimes Sir
♥♥s♥♥ : being made to be in His presence, but not acknowledge that even knows i am there, was worst i have had.
~wï£dsÞïrït£ws~Mß : i agree with that one s
His~fury~ : depending on a persons motivation .. the mere fact they have been displeasing .. is the greatest consequence of poor behavior or disobediance
~wï£dsÞïrït£ws~Mß : true on that statement too sis
♥♥s♥♥ : isnt there a difference between "teaching a lesson" and a true punishment
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : now aneliesa .....there is nothing wrong with enjoying spanking, hair pulling, or other things that cause pain ... in fact many folks do
»†«phøéb뻆« : i like spanking. Lol so long as it doesnt leave severe welts and bruises
♥♥s♥♥ : nods depending on the Who and why lol
His~fury~ : spanking is not a 'punishment' for me lol
~wï£dsÞïrït£ws~Mß chuckles
♥♥s♥♥ : agree fury
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : I try to never do something as a punishment that I do for pleasure ... that can be very confusing to both parties given the fact that you "kinda" enjoy spanking I would work towards making it more than just a "kinda" pleasure and avoid doing it as punishment exacting pain can be a beautiful and erotic thing I'd prefer using it as an erotic experience that you craved
»†«phøéb뻆« : exactly SW
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : why thank you phoebe
His~fury~ : agrred Sir that is confusing
»†«phøéb뻆« : punishment really depends on the person... different folks like things like spanking, whipping etc... for me, taking away something that i love dearly/hold close.... is MORE of a punishment than getting spanked is
§ir§iñgér«ahaña»calida : it would be more a punishment to My pet if I Didnt spank her
§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ nods there is another good example aneliesa ... denial of pleasure which can be done in many ways
~wï£dsÞïrït£ws~Mß : no desserts for a week or something you really enjoy..a television show
aneliesa : oh that would not be cool
»†«phøéb뻆« : writing lines (if you were disrespectful) - 100 times, i will not be disrespectful etc etc etc
aneliesa : ok
§ir§iñgér«ahaña»calida : ahhh writing lines lol brings back memories
His~fury~ : standing in a corner in a dark room forced to focus on the thing you did wrong
§ir§iñgér«ahaña»calida : forbiding contact is about as bad as you can do to her
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : making you watch the enitre series of the Kardashians!
♥♥s♥♥ : above and beyond Sir
His~fury~ LAUGHS
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : followed up with a written synopsis of each episode
§ir§iñgér«ahaña»calida : YIKES not that bad SW !!!
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : I know I know ... evil huh?
His~fury~ : cruel
♥♥s♥♥ : and you would know if what she wrote was accurate Shifting?
♥♥s♥♥ : hello Soloman Sir
§ir§iñgér«ahaña»calida : sure He watches it
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : nope lol I would only read them to check for spelling and grammar lol ... does any of this help you aneliesa?
♥♥s♥♥ : agree fury
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : I try to never do something as a punishment that I do for pleasure ... that can be very confusing to both parties given the fact that you "kinda" enjoy spanking I would work towards making it more than just a "kinda" pleasure and avoid doing it as punishment exacting pain can be a beautiful and erotic thing I'd prefer using it as an erotic experience that you craved
»†«phøéb뻆« : exactly SW
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : why thank you phoebe
His~fury~ : agrred Sir that is confusing
»†«phøéb뻆« : punishment really depends on the person... different folks like things like spanking, whipping etc... for me, taking away something that i love dearly/hold close.... is MORE of a punishment than getting spanked is
§ir§iñgér«ahaña»calida : it would be more a punishment to My pet if I Didnt spank her
§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ nods there is another good example aneliesa ... denial of pleasure which can be done in many ways
~wï£dsÞïrït£ws~Mß : no desserts for a week or something you really enjoy..a television show
aneliesa : oh that would not be cool
»†«phøéb뻆« : writing lines (if you were disrespectful) - 100 times, i will not be disrespectful etc etc etc
aneliesa : ok
§ir§iñgér«ahaña»calida : ahhh writing lines lol brings back memories
His~fury~ : standing in a corner in a dark room forced to focus on the thing you did wrong
§ir§iñgér«ahaña»calida : forbiding contact is about as bad as you can do to her
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : making you watch the enitre series of the Kardashians!
♥♥s♥♥ : above and beyond Sir
His~fury~ LAUGHS
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : followed up with a written synopsis of each episode
§ir§iñgér«ahaña»calida : YIKES not that bad SW !!!
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : I know I know ... evil huh?
His~fury~ : cruel
♥♥s♥♥ : and you would know if what she wrote was accurate Shifting?
♥♥s♥♥ : hello Soloman Sir
§ir§iñgér«ahaña»calida : sure He watches it
ﺼﺸ§hìftìñgWìñdﻌﻀ : nope lol I would only read them to check for spelling and grammar lol ... does any of this help you aneliesa?
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